Eating disorders and counselling

Many of us are unaware of the personal relationship we have with food but most of us will turn to food, or away from it, at times of distress.

Problems can begin when a person uses food as their primary method of coping with difficult circumstances. 

Disordered eating may involve either insufficient or excessive food intake to the detriment of a person’s physical, psychological and emotional health. It is often described as an outward expression of internal, often unexpressed, pain and confusion.

Disordered eating is complex and rarely attributable to just one factor. Common triggers include bereavement, bullying, abuse, trauma, low self-esteem, family issues and some illnesses. Idealised unrealistic body images in the media also play a role.

Though anyone can develop disordered eating habits, most likely to be affected are females between 15 and 25 years old. The number of males developing disordered eating is on the rise. 

Types of disordered eating

Three common diagnoses for disordered eating are:

Also known simply as anorexia, this is characterised by extremely low body weight, distorted body image and an obsessive fear of gaining weight. Characterised by self-starvation and excessive weight loss, it is potentially life-threatening. People with anorexia nervosa may go to extreme lengths to limit food or calorie intake in an effort to attain a very specific, and unhealthy, body image. They may also exercise excessively.

Also known simply as bulimia, this is characterised by secretive cycles of binge eating followed by activities to compensate. Someone with bulimia will eat large amounts of food in a short period of time, then attempt to get rid of the food or calories through vomiting, using enemas or laxatives or exercising excessively. Bulimia can be life-threatening.

Sometimes called compulsive eating, this is characterised by periods of uncontrolled, impulsive or continuous eating to the point of being uncomfortably full. While there is no immediate purging (getting the food out of the body, as in bulimia) there may be sporadic fasts and diets as an attempt to compensate for over-eating.

Disordered eating of any type can be accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt, regret and depression. Eating disorders often lead to secondary health problems like damage to the teeth, reproductive system and digestive system.

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Together with you, we can make things better

Counselling for eating disorders takes time and commitment, but it really helps. Your counsellor will support you in understanding the underlying causes and the immediate triggers of your disordered eating. They will help you to find other ways to cope when things get difficult. 

Disordered eating can be about exercising control. People who don’t have control over other areas of their life can find comfort in controlling their eating. We will help you to gain control over other areas of your life and to express your distress in healthier ways.

Our therapists understand why people develop eating disorders; they won’t judge you. They are warm and empathic and will treat everything you say as confidential.

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Rebecca Kendall - Therapist
Rebecca Kendall

Rebecca is a psychodynamic psychotherapist offering short-term and long-term individual therapy She works with a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, identity and feelings of difference, eating disorders and bereavement Rebecca works non-judgementally and compassionately to build a therapeutic relationship with her clients She has considerable experience...

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Melinda Shalet - Therapist
Melinda Shalet

Melinda is an integrative therapist, offering a tailored approach to suit each client’s individual requirements She brings to her practice an understanding of high‑pressure environments shaped by her 20‑year career in the financial sector Melinda’s clients find her calm, compassionate and thoughtful approach to be transformative As therapy progresses,...

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Geraldine Abberton - Therapist
Geraldine Abberton

Geraldine is an integrative therapist who draws on a range of therapeutic approaches including person-centred, CBT and psychodynamic modalities, to meet each client’s unique needs She believes in her clients’ innate resilience and capacity for growth, and helps them make sense of current challenges and past experiences, to gain the insight and self-understanding...

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Annabel Lear - Therapist
Annabel Lear

Annabel is an integrative therapist offering both short- and long-term therapy Acknowledging that beginning therapy can feel daunting, Annabel establishes a secure and collaborative therapeutic relationship grounded in trust, empathy and genuine understanding Working from a humanistic-integrative perspective, Annabel believes every person has an innate capacity for...

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Annabelle Hird - Therapist
Annabelle Hird

Annabelle is a skilled and compassionate therapist offering support for individuals and couples in Kensington/Notting Hill Her approach is centred around creating a non-judgemental space for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings and relationships It is her belief that with greater understanding comes agency, and this is when powerful change occurs Annabelle works...

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Prachi Vij - Therapist
Prachi Vij

As a psychodynamic therapist, Prachi provides a warm and secure space for her clients to explore their world She works collaboratively with clients to uncover the unconscious patterns that shape their feelings, thoughts, and behaviours By making connections between past experiences and current life, clients can gain valuable insights and develop more authentic ways of...

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Christine Andreasen - Therapist
Christine Andreasen

Christine (she/her) is an integrative counsellor, relationship therapist and psychosexual therapist She offers a warm and safe space to individuals and couples, with room for both tears and laughter Her approach is relational, curious and personal, focusing on understanding what makes each individual unique She works alongside her clients as they explore their...

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Therapist Stamatia Lorentzou
Stamatia Lorentzou

A senior therapist, Stamatia has been with One Therapy London for many years She holds a doctorate in counselling psychology and is a registered psychotherapist Stamatia knows it can be difficult to understand or cope with the strong feelings that life’s experiences can sometimes bring Talking with an experienced therapist is a way of thinking things through and...

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Therapist Yussef Ferguson
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Yussef offers a warm and confidential space to explore life’s challenges He is a psychodynamic therapist and works in a way that explores how past experiences and hidden patterns may shape your present thoughts, feelings and relationships In meetings with Yussef, you can speak freely about whatever feelings, memories or experiences are important to you You will begin...

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Therapist Barbara Beyaz
Barbara Beyaz

Barbara brings a warm, non-judgmental, and accepting attitude to her work with clients As an integrative Psychotherapist, she draws from a range of theoretical perspectives which allows her to tailor therapy to the needs of the client Barbara thinks that healing and individual growth happen when difficulties in living are explored with empathy, and the client's unique...

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